Today I am overjoyed to experience the goodness of our Father God. Last May 10th, our family, together with my uncles, aunts, cousins, nephews and nieces had a simple get-together as we celebrated my grandmother’s 99th birthday.
The previous year was a tough one for her. She had another bad fall which fractured her right hip (second time). Recuperation was longer and tougher. She also stayed in a nursing facility for over a year. In hindsight, the advantages of bringing her to this place were quite numerous. A caregiver is present 24/7 for her medicines, to change her diaper, give her a bath, to feed her - to basically tend to her daily needs. However, there weren’t many recreational activities to stimulate her mind, body and soul.
I am overjoyed that my grandmother is mentally alert. She enjoys conversing and is aware of the things happening around her. She knows everyone, too. She shares her preferences for food which we bring whenever we visit to make her happier. She chatters non-stop and it’s truly a blessing to have her around in our lives.
I am overjoyed that the sore on my left ischium is getting better. I no longer feel the “pain” in that area after sitting for an hour or so. Though I still limit sitting for 3 - 4 hours each time. The exudate or discharge is very little these days. And I am confident that it will heal very soon.
Despite life’s challenges and obstacles, it is always best to focus on the positives and to appreciate the goodness in every situation.
